How to persuade someone to get treatment

Identifying an addiction is hard enough. Getting the addicted to seek treatment is altogether a different dilemma. Most people will deny their addictions in the face of absolute proof, others will downplay the severity of their addictions, and others yet, will just tell you to mind your own business. Invariably, it will not be an easy undertaking trying to convince the dependent individual to ask for help. In most instances, the task will be quite draining and demanding. Consequently, here are five points that can aid you when tackling the issue of how to persuade someone to get treatment.

Be Available

Listening to the addict and even researching facilities may be enough to persuade him or her to seek treatment. Sometimes, the biggest problem is knowing where to find help. By being available and helping to obtain concrete information, it may be easier for the individual to make a final decision. But one word of caution here. Do not become an enabler. While you are listening, it is normal to take pity and feel sorry for the individual. But, there is a difference between helping the person continue the addiction, and helping them to get treatment. Even if their dependence seems rational and justified because of their problems, do no get caught up in the drama, helping the addict to perpetuate the addiction. Provide real assistance.

Arrange a Meeting with a Counselor

Sometimes, dependent individuals are open to hearing about treatment options. With their permission, you could arrange a meeting with a qualified counselor to discuss potential choices when seeking help. But,use this method with caution. Remember that the individual has not agreed to treatment, he or she has only agreed to listen to options. Do not expect the session to be therapeutic. Also, it might be wise to arrange a meeting away from the counselor's office. Often, addicts do not want others to know their business, and being in that particular office is an announcement of sorts. Try to find neutral territory for the meeting.

Call a Helpline Together

It is possible that with support, the individual might be willing to speak with a professional in an anonymous manner through the telephone. Help lines are available, and picking up the telephone may be enough to get assistance for the individual.

Intervention

Sadly, it may come to the fact that you will have to force, rather than persuade, someone to get treatment either by court order or some other type of invention. Of course, for children, as the parents or guardians, you will have the final say in what happens, but for adults, especially those who are violent and committing illegal acts, the court may help you. Likewise, family members or friends who fear for the person's safety and well-being may hold a session in which they confront the individual. Be prepared that things could go very ugly. It will be quite traumatic and emotional for everyone who attends.

Finally, understand that addicted individuals are rarely logical. They have become masters at hiding their behaviors. They have created excuses for themselves, and justify their behaviors. Often, in their minds, they are entitled to their activities. So, it may not be a simple case of reasoning with them and persuading them to seek treatment.